The big leap full#

put a priority on speaking the microscopic truth, especially re emotions. make plenty of time for yourself (separately) If I think I don't have time for something, it's really because I don't want to do it. To really master your life, switch from Newtonian time to Einsteinian time: time is not outside of me, I make time. But it's something you have to keep practicing all the time. Once you transcend your upper limits and move into your zone of genius, it's a continuous upward-floating spiral. That's expected! If you stick with it, eventually it will become believed/true. I expand in abundance, success, and love every day, as I inspire those around me to do the same.ĭon't be surprised if it seems untrue and your mind starts arguing with it. Say an enlightened no to things outside your zone of genius. When I'm doing that, the thing I love most about it is _ When I'm at my best, the exact thing I'm doing is _ģ. What is my unique ability? (special skill-superpower)Ģ. In my work, what produces the highest ratio of abundance and satisfaction to amount of time spent?Ĥ. What work do I do that doesn't seem like work?ģ. The answer to 'if there were no constraints and you could do anything you wanted, what would you do?'Ģ. What is your zone of genius? The things you're great at AND love doing. I commit to living in my Zone of Genius, now and forever. Obviously, some are real, but many are produced by our own minds to punish, protect, or prevent something.

Fights are about who's the bigger victim.ĥ. Especially money arguments-almost never about the thing you're arguing about. Add on your 'I wish I had done better _' at the end if you must-AFTER you've let the positivity in.Ĥ. Even if you think you sucked, accept the compliment. If it's not 'please stop standing on my foot now,' it's just a way to keep from being too happy.ģ. Usually what you're criticizing someone about is not the real issue. Drop it and look for the positive thing that's trying to come through.Ģ.

If it's not about something real that you can act on immediately, it's just a way to stop yourself from being happy. There also may be someone I'm afraid of out-shining, but I can't think of anyone.ġ. That way, if you fail, at least you fail small.'Īs I read that, I realized I'm not just afraid of failing, I'm afraid my genius is so flawed, if I express it in a big way, I'll bring down some kind of curse from the universe onto myself and everyone around me. This belief tells you to play it safe and stay small.

It’s the belief that even your genius is flawed, and that if you expressed it in a big way, it wouldn’t be good enough.

The big leap full#

It’s the fear that if you did make a full commitment to living in your Zone of Genius, you might fail. I upper-limit myself because I believe I'm fundamentally flawed and because I'm afraid success will bring with it greater burdens than I can handle.Ībout the first one, he says, 'The fear of being fundamentally flawed brings with it a related fear. Even for people who don't sabotage their own happiness and success, there's a lot of great stuff in here about making the most of your life. Can't wait to read the rest and solve my shit!įinished. Here's what it means for me: I upper-limit myself because I believe I'm Holy fuckety fuck, I wish I'd read this two years ago! Self-sabotage? Success/crash cycle? It's in there! Finally, an explanation! I'm only in chapter 2, but so far it's pure gold. Can't wait to read the rest and solve my shit!.

Holy fuckety fuck, I wish I'd read this two years ago! Self-sabotage? Success/crash cycle? It's in there! Finally, an explanation! I'm only in chapter 2, but so far it's pure gold.